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A Simple Get Your Ex Back Plan

17th December, 2010 - Posted by health news - No Comments

Getting dumped can be a very difficult time indeed, especially if you still love your partner, I am going to give you some information about how you can go about getting things back on track between the two of you. Being successful at this though is not going to be easy, it is important that you remember that.

Before you begin, you need to be 100% certain that you do want to get back with your ex, and that you will not be happy simply moving on with your life. It is then time to get things going when you decide that you want to get your ex back for good.

So, the first thing you need to do is actually nothing, I know it sounds weird. By doing nothing, I mean that you should do nothing with your ex, stop all contact with them for several weeks. You must do your best to avoid contacting them in anyway, it is important that you do this in order to give both them and you some time to breathe. It may look to you as though you are doing nothing to help to get them back, and you may think that you are wasting your time, but you are actually helping a great deal by creating this breathing space.

So once you have both had your breathing space, it is then time to think about how you should contact them, you should take a gentle approach. Of all the ways that there are to contact them, I would recommend calling them on the phone rather than texting/emailing because you will get to speak to them straight away. Don’t get persistent however if they don’t answer you, you don’t want to appear desperate towards them.

If they say yes then of course this is great and you will be soon on the road to recovery, just remember that you need to take things slow with them, just meet up as friends to begin with as you don’t want to scare them off. Going through a break up is really difficult, take a look at get your ex back tips if you still want to try again with your ex, there will be some good stuff on there that will help you.