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3 Tips to Help Someone Fall in Love with You and Heal Your Broken Heart

9th November, 2010 - Posted by health news - No Comments

Girl loves boy or boy loves girl except they love somebody else, you witness it all the time in movies or on TV. Magically though, by the end of show they get together and live happily ever after. Can this fairy tale actually happen? It is achievable to mend your broken heart and coerce someone into falling in love with you?

To getting that special someone to fall in love with you, here are 3 tips:

1. Common Interests – When people share a common pastime, they are often drawn to one another. As you get to know each other, find out their interests and if you share any. Maybe you share the love of hiking or reading the same type of books, whatever it is you can build on that interest. Don’t ever lie about an interest, if the person ever found out, you would be breaking their trust and could jeopardize any further relationship. Also, you never want to be someone you aren’t; you shouldn’t have change “who” you are for someone you love.

2. Qualities – When people are looking for a partner they look for someone who has qualities they like or admire. For instance, a man who is a non-smoker, over the age of 35 and has a great sense of humor, is all my friend will date. Do you have qualities that the person you love, are attracted to? When you investigate prior relationships, are there any like qualities shared between ex-partners? Do you have any of the qualities that they had? You have to be careful here and don’t try to be just like their past partners, after all there is a reason they broke up. That little something they were attracted to could be as simple as having the door being held open for them, holding their hand or made them feel special in some way.

3. Be a good friend – A good relationship begins with a good friendship, is my belief. You will become a very important part of their life as your friendship develops even though it may take a long time to get the person you love. Do not put your life on hold however if they require you, be there for them, and be a good listener. Try dating other people as you have to continue living. Looking like you are always just being there for them at every whim you will only make yourself look pathetic. By showing them that you have a life and date other people while you wait for them, as weird as it may sound, it may make them look differently at you and they may even find you more attractive.

When the person you love doesn’t love you, it’s difficult and even heartbreaking. But it doesn’t have to be that way. Just like in the movies or on TV, you too could have a fairy tale ending however if these 3 tips do not work, that person may not be the one for you. Then you will have to know when to move on and try to mend your broken heart.