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Is It Possible to Get Ex Back and Heal My Broken Heart?

4th September, 2010 - Posted by health news - No Comments

Did your boyfriend just end your relationship and you need to mend your broken heart? This is a rough time in your life. You are probably hurting and want to know what caused your boyfriend to break up.

First of all don’t do too much self examination of who you are and where you are in your life. The reason why your boyfriend broke up with you is because he has his own issues to deal with. That being said, the old “it’s not you, it’s me” saying comes into play.

You can spend time trying to get your ex back. If you are going to take this direction, you should to know the following issues:

• Flirting with other guys in his presence is okay. It could even make him want you back even more.
• Do not pressure him for more than he can handle when you do get back together for a “trial date”, instead be cheerful and friendly.
• Don’t pester your ex – when your boyfriend breaks up with you, it means that you have limited access to him. So don’t text him multiple times a day or call him a lot.

But, if you have a feeling in your gut that the relationship is over when your boyfriend breaks up with you, then you need to start moving on.

One of the first things you can do after your break up is to sit down and write a long letter to him pouring out your heart. Include all the good times and bad times. You can tell him what a jerk he is and call him all sorts of names. However, do not mail the letter! Instead, take a candle out and burn it. This is one of the best techniques to give yourself closure after your boyfriend breaks up with you.

A property exchange is the next thing you need to do. You will need to give him back that t-shirt that you love to sleep in. Make him give back the econ textbook you lent him. Throw away the trivial items like toothbrushes instead of exchanging them. Don’t have anything around that reminds you of him. Box up any gifts that he gave you for the time being. A joint chequing account or any debts owed to the other need to be sorted out and resolved as soon as possible.

Upon completion of the property exchange you both need to agree to no communication for 30 days. This may be hard if you are used to seeing each other on a daily basis, but after a boyfriend breaks up with you it is necessary to give yourself some space and distance.

It hurts very much when a boyfriend ends the relationship with you. It is not the end of your life, however. You are now free to meet your true soul mate, when you look at the positive side of things.

You shouldn’t jump to the conclusion that all of the doors are firmly shut just because you have gone through a break up with your boyfriend. If you think you have a shot at winning him back and that’s something you want, you should by all means take the opportunity to do so.

True love can even endure a break up by a boyfriend and mend my broken heart.