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What Females Want In Fellas

31st August, 2010 - Posted by health news - No Comments

You may think that being the nice guy type when going on a date with a woman is a infallible way to get her attention. Well, most men will tell you that is a fallacy. An air of mystery seems to attract more women – when they believe there’s more to find out about you, they are more intrigued.

It’s not that women want a man who will treat them badly. Confident guys seem to be more trustworthy, that’s why a lot of women are mesmerized with them. This type of man seems to stand up for his beliefs and values no matter how much other people may pressure him to change. Women will always like the nice guy for a friend, but they see one as lacking confidence, always ready to give in to pressure and not living up to what he believes in. Women may like this at the start, but will pretty soon find a man less fascinating in the long term. They will lose a bit of respect for this nice guy type.

So what is this telling the men? Simply that you just have to find a little more confidence, but not too much that you end up being a rascal. Have the ‘hey, I like you, but I got along fine before you came along and I’ll be fine if you break up with me’ aura. As the relationship progresses and you slowly exhibit more attention, she will feel special.

Also be confident, even if you are stressed. Probably the most confident men I know also happen to be good in bed – and this is no coincidence. My ex boyfriend employed instant performer to be sure he was in top shape, which he discovered about following looking at a instant performer review in the magazines.

Don’t fold up to a woman’s every caprice. She’ll only respect you less or she may expect to get her way all the time. She will whine, complain or even refuse to see you when she doesn’t get things done as she likes. It doesn’t also mean you have to be unreasonable and never ever give in. Not at all! Give in when there’s reason to, but not all the time. When a woman understands you’re simply sensible rather than harsh on her, she will be happier. Never give in just because you’re too tired to argue. Work out a compromise instead; it’s fairer for both ends that way.

Don’t ever doubt that a woman will think you don’t love her because you won’t give in. You can show your love in a lot better ways. Give a woman something she doesn’t ask for. A well thought-of act is way better than giving something because it’s being asked for. Offer to help her out with cleaning her space, or give her a compliment when she least expects it. Don’t be a lapdog when it comes to love and relationships. Do the unexpected rather than the traditional. The good things in life come unexpectedly. Just be yourself, and be confident about it. Women will like you better that way than trying to be something you’re not.