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Top 3 Justifications of Why He Wishes to Ditch You and How to Heal Your Broken Heart

11th October, 2010 - Posted by health news - No Comments

Have you ever had that strange yet sick feeling that you are about to be dumped by your boyfriend? Unexpectedly you are getting this impression that he just doesn’t want to be near you nor is he being very caring or loving. Can your relationship be resolved sooner than you need to heal your broken heart? Think about what you can do to change if you do any of the things below.

1. Are you overly clingy?
On every occasion you are with your man, do you attach yourself to him? While he is not with you are you continually calling or texting him? When he goes out with his friends, do you complain?

You will be slowly driving him away if you do any of these and continue to do so. He’s going to call and see you as frequently as he can at the start of the relationship when you are both on your best behavior. However before long he will begin to relax as such his calls and visits will be less frequent and shorter as the honeymoon phase doesn’t last forever. At this point the majority of women start to freak out, but it’s truly ok, he’s just getting comfortable and he still genuinely likes you. Instead of calling him all the time, you’d make more of a statement if you played a little hard to get.

2. All is revealed to your friends!
The closer you and your partner become, the more relaxed you will be with each other. You may open up to each other about things that you haven’t shared with others. To make each other laugh, you may do silly things. This should stay between the two of you, don’t share it with your friends! How would he feel if he found out that you told your gal pals that he cries or that he tried on your g-string all so he could make you laugh, can you picture it? As you wouldn’t want him to share your secrets with his friends, so put yourself in his position. You will eventually lose him if you lose his trust.

3. High maintenance is what you are!
Do you always need reassurance on how your relationship is doing? For every situation that is involving the two of you, are you forever examining them? Are you always questioning him on how you look? Are you continually probing for compliments?

If you want to drive him crazy then continue doing this but your relationship won’t last long! It’s acceptable to ask him if you look fantastic prior to you go out but do not make it in to a big argument on your relationship because you over analyzed his answer. In the middle of dinner with his friends present is not an appropriate time or place to discuss you relationship, no matter how much you feel you need it. Once, I had a friend do this and it made everyone very uneasy!

Don’t make him think that nothing satisfies you – it will make him feel like he can’t do anything right because you find fault with everything. Loosen up if you want to hold on to you man, or else you’ll be shopping for a new partner instead of a new dress.

You have to take a look at what you are doing that makes you feel like your man is slipping away, are you the one driving him away? If you make an effort to change, you might be able to save your relationship instead of having to heal your broken heart.